tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12603642.post113712805513319568..comments2023-04-11T03:15:36.298-06:00Comments on ramblings of a curious mind: there is such a thing as too niceramblin' girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05101217614181692147noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12603642.post-1137763995356067592006-01-20T06:33:00.000-07:002006-01-20T06:33:00.000-07:00I have that problem too...Sigh.I have that problem too...Sigh.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519224953463428308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12603642.post-1137258756525412382006-01-14T10:12:00.000-07:002006-01-14T10:12:00.000-07:00I tend to be sarcastic, but at the same time conve...I tend to be sarcastic, but at the same time convey it with enough "oomph" that they know I am pissed.<BR/><BR/>"Well see if I ever invite you to a concert again. I ended up sitting next to the burrito vendor that waits outside the bars until 2:00AM because he was the only one I could find to use the damn thing and I wasn't going to waste $50 again."Jeremyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059673299496149227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12603642.post-1137214329921734882006-01-13T21:52:00.000-07:002006-01-13T21:52:00.000-07:00It seems these days that people are afraid that th...It seems these days that people are afraid that they might inluslt you or hurt your feelings if they tell you "I don't want to go".<BR/>So, instead, they ignore you and act like they "forgot", therefore they can avoid blame, and not really have to take responsibility.<BR/><BR/>Being "decent" these days is seen as being a "bad person". It's better to pretend it never happend. Besides' you'll Jerk Of All Trades 2.0https://www.blogger.com/profile/13989443403481299830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12603642.post-1137158605232869102006-01-13T06:23:00.000-07:002006-01-13T06:23:00.000-07:00The age old question for the "nice girl". A not n...The age old question for the "nice girl". A not nice girl would just come right out and complain. A guy probably would, too. But for us that were raised to not show anger, to be sugar and spice and everything nice, it's more difficult.<BR/><BR/>Time to get out the spicy part. Tell her/him, gently, what you didn't like. <BR/><BR/>The worst that could happen is that they will think you are a Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17447664809733142105noreply@blogger.com